#13 That’s It – An A-Ha… Personal & Revealing Story

Dear Positive Prime Influencer 🙂

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Allow me to share a personal story… it’s going to be worth it…

Was it a spell?

I’d been VERY successful during my twenties through to my mid-thirties: travelling the world, living & working in the UK & the USA & Europe, wildly wealthy & paid a fortune for my brilliance in Corporate life as a Consultant & then I started an amazing small business that was a global phenomenon…

But, then… as if a curse or spell had been cast… I started a roller-coaster ride in my late 30s & early 40s… High highs… and devastating lows…

I’d had some serious challenges before that – but sailed through them… I was such a high vibration I “cured” myself of cancer in my Uterus as if instantly & miraculously by doing my own Reiki healing on myself… (I was also still teaching Lithos Therapy and was receiving the treatment very regularly.)

My life was rich. I’d been blessed with an infinite number of privileges. I was already a best-selling author too…

Given the ups & downs, I thought it was best I studied “how-to” RECOVER. Setting out to become RESILIENT I uncovered a hidden & useful aspect of resilience: it also helps with enjoying the journey of life !!! It led me to “positive psychology” and “neuroscience”… The Spa Industry had presented me with an opportunity to acquire a unique understanding of “mindfulness” in practice at Retreats in the Himalayas long before it became concept de jour.

For more on resilience & neuroplasticity: https://www.positiveprime.com/neuroplasticity/

Secrets of Success

I’ve been DRIVEN to uncover the “secrets” to success… and abundance… given how charmed my 20s were… but the “special ingredient” seemed ELUSIVE… Wondering if my good fortune had perhaps been luck, I felt anxious about whether I could “repeat” whatever the steps were that led to my buoyancy in younger days.

Had I suffered at my own hands with SELF-SABOTAGE?(

I wouldn’t even know about the Fear of Success vs the Fear of Failure had I not completed the entire of “Mastery University” with Anthony Robbins…)

I needed to know… And, I’ve been vigorous in figuring it out & seeking answers from outstanding & wise leaders over the past 10 years.

What’s more, I want to help others “prevent” a slide downwards and or assist them in rising up…

The Grass Is Greener

Now, I should put this into perspective… Even today, from the outside looking into my life, most people consider me EXTREMELY successful… driven… tenacious… motivating… peaceful, blessed & wealthy, well-loved, vibrantly healthy, inspiring etc etc…

But deep within I have known, and I know now there’s sooooooo much more of ME to “realize my FULLEST & BRIGHTEST & BIGGEST Potential”…

I “follow-up & follow-through” on most of what I’ve learned… I still make mistakes & have to fix them… I’m beating anxiety. I’ve healed from unhealthy addictions like smoking. I’ve overcome insomnia. I’ve dealt with procrastination. I’ve developed my self-confidence. I’ve processed the grief from not having my own children. I’m genuinely joyful. I spread cheer. I’m enthusiastic & effervescent for 90% of the time. I’ve transformed the way-too-serious ME and replaced her with a more PLAYFUL me. I’m laser-focused. I’m sharp. I’m dedicated & concentrated. I’m pursuing my calling; I have real purpose. I have fabulous friends and exceptional bonds with my family. The romantic relationship I share with a man who is much better than I ever could have manifested without some “higher power at play” is exquisite for 99.9% of the time, and I’m intensely grateful… 

My “evolution” has an infinite quality about it… I’ll continue learning, improving & developing & enhancing & expanding forever…

I’m not afraid to hear what I don’t want to! I’m willing & able to receive feedback & consider its merits – even if it stings or hurts… I’m adventurous about changing my character, my personality & the results I aim to achieve in life! I’ve grown more considerate & thoughtful… I’m becoming even more kind & caring… I have absolute clarity about my responsibilities & accountabilities. I trust myself to DREAM…

I hope you’ve committed to do so as well… Naturally, we’re kindred spirits if you have…

If you need help you could consider me as a “guide / mentor / cheerleader / healer / advisor” – and work with me directly: https://www.serafinimindspa.com/meet-kim

Together Forever

Let’s see how many lives we can positively influence in our life-times and the positive impacts we can make & the legacies we can leave…Especially if that’s showing others how to be passionate, peaceful, abundantly prosperous and acutely aware of our need to be compassionate in every moment…

I have to say – I’ve learned A LOT about how to IMPROVE things like my eyesight as well – it’s BETTER – technically (confirmed by an Optometrist) than it was 5 years ago – or 20 years ago… Same for my hearing – as it was just tested & it’s PERFECT… So, there have been biological miracles as well !!

Potential & Purpose

Drawn like a moth to a FLAME I read Shawn Achor’s recent best-seller: “Big Potential”…

Most people in my inner circle know that I feel an incredible gift from God was offered when I had the special opportunity to meet him and work with him and his wife, Michelle & his sister, Amy & brother-in-law, Dr Bobo… PRECIOUS & valued – is a huge understatement !! There are many people I admire & respect but this family WALKS THEIR TALK – and I truly treasure that !!!

Watch Shawn’s famous TED talk here: https://www.positiveprime.com/happiness/

Have you ever wondered why you feel healthier and happier when you stroll through the trees or frolic by the sea? Is it just that you’re spending time away from work, de-stressing and taking in the view? Or is there more to it? For more than 20 years, scientists have been trying to determine the mechanisms by which exposure to biodiversity improves health.

Long-Term Performance in Careers, Emotional Wellbeing – Harvard Study with 1,600 people

On page 32 in Chapter 2 of Shawn Achor’s “Big Potential” I read about his time at Harvard University working with Dr Tal Ben-Shahar for the class of Psych 1504.

Makes You Think?

Could the saying “It’s not what you know, but who you know” add some weight here?

Is Shawn’s statement auspicious, pertinent, timely or a waste of our time?

One of my best ah-has, “THAT’S IT”… came from reading Shawn’s book.

I participated in many drama productions & LOVED the social aspects of rehearsals & performances. I participated in many community & philanthropic programs & LOVED the social aspects of being a part of our group that helps others. Same continued through University… THEN when I started my career in London as a Change Management Consultant working on some of the most impressive deals in Mergers & Acquisition HISTORY… my socialising continued, both within the firm & also broadly within our clients’ organisations + the industry at large. It was beneficial to my career advancement. I raced to the TOP of the ladder… and it was EASY… it was SMOOTH… I was guided by wise mentors… I suspect it was because I was very social. I had a FULL life in London and made many English friends who are sill close confidants these days! I created many sincere friendships in the USA that continue to this day – 20 years later! I’ve maintain, sustained, nourished…

Moments of silence, when my mind is deeply impacted by what I’m reading & learning, is when I can have some PROFOUND & insightful A-HA moments… They’re delicious…

Being Introverted!

Awakened, my consciousness realised that over the past 10-15 years I have become much less social. I reflected. I started to retreat in a consequential way when I developed my first deep, meaningful & long-term romantic relationship with someone who was incredibly SHY… He was an intellectual. I did a lot of “trying to be accommodating”. Even though I wanted to get out & about and spend time with friends & make new ones… I actually started to withdraw into the twosome. I was not co-dependent… but I ended up feeling ALONE… At the time, it even seemed to suit me because I’m naturally an INTROVERT (I’ve shared that many times before with you all)… And, it’s usually a SHOCK to most people… 

What do we do?

You may be wondering HOW do we steadily develop strong social connections that are mutually generous and have a momentous and significant effect on our lives?

“What beliefs do we need to have?” “What actions do we need to take?” “What character & personality strengths do we need to make a worthwhile effort towards?” “Who do you need to BE?” “What’s trust & loyalty & integrity got to do with it?”

It’s dawned on me – that I can help myself & also you! 

Let’s make one of the top priorities for 2019 all about constructing social connections that FLOURISH for everyone involved! 

My parents are VERY social… Socialising was an evolutionary requirement in the ExPat community I grew up within, in Papua New Guinea nearly 5 decades ago… It’s like the social scenes of ExPats in the UAE or Singapore nowadays… Both my Mum & Dad are very healthy in their 70s.

They’ve been faithful to each other for nearly 50 years. They have many life-long friendships that have matured magnificently. They have enjoyed tremendous success. They’ve accomplished more than most… travelled more widely than most… and raised us (their children) as elite athletes & an high achievers. We’re also happy, mentally & physically healthy… We’ve had tragedies to experience & grow from…

So… where’s this leading…

Carefully-curated Images in Sessions

You may have noticed that in ALL Sessions there are MANY images of people having fun together… socialising… making connections… enriching & nourishing their valuable relationships with friends, families, colleagues, team members, communities… they’re contributing in meaningful ways to others… it’s for a very good reason !!!

We’re PRIMING you to “develop” your social connections !!

We GIFT our Participants 2 Sessions EVERY MONTH with content that we believe is imperative to THRIVING…and ensuring that this year you’ll feel like you’re in the PRIME OF YOUR LIFE.

One of those Sessions is about Developing Rich Social Connections & Reaping the Rewards…

That that end – here’s an invitation!

Please Submit Yours

If you’re exceptional at growing your social network in successful and substantial ways (I’m not talking about banal ways at ridiculous networking events where people leave feeling worse than when they arrived because of the pointless small talk & self-angrandisement they’re subjected to & the overly selfish opportunism they have to witness) THEN… we want to learn from you too…

Would you share?

Please submit your best…

…if you have a “Positive Belief Statement” or an Afformation or Affirmation or Mantra or any Advice that’s solid & well-tested, or Suggestions based upon Empirical Evidence then please email it to us – and we’ll review & incorporate the best of the best submissions it into that Session…

It’s due to be released in February… to our special participants of our Signature Program…

We’ll do our best to offer the greatest tips, hints, reminders & lessons that will make you a MASTER in the area of Spectacular & Supportive Social Connections!

Positively Prime Yourself

Together, as a team of Positive Prime Influencers (which is, who & what we really are as a group of people viewing our Sessions regularly), we’ll beat the odds & do great things! We’ll become stronger as we connect & impact others positively… by recommending that they too leverage Positive Prime… 

To that end – here’s how to WIN the “competition”

Remember Prize 1 & 2 & 3 (each valued at $5,000) are mentioned in an earlier email – that you’ll find on our blog: https://www.positiveprime.com/1-gifts-prizes-more/

• You’re rewarded with Credits WHEN you “share” – and help another to join & create an account…
• You’re rewarded (with LOTS of CREDITS) when YOU sign up to our Signature Program & also when you Join Us as a Professional Package
• You’re rewarded EVEN MORE when you help other Professionals sign up to our Package…

You’ll need 50,000 Credits to CLAIM Prize 1 or 2 or 3.

Remember, that I want to be able to organise your travel to Australia to join me on a special Serafini Mind Spa Retreat here within the Nautilus Estate…

EVERYONE WINS… There’s a PRIZE for EVERYONE who joins us within the Signature Program if they select “Annual”…

Here’s how to calculate what’s necessary to achieve the rank of Diamond FAST…

1. Create an account. 
2. Invite MANY others to do the same… 
3. Participate in our Signature Program – select the Annual payment option.
4. Encourage others to do so as well… 
5. If you’re likely to be a Professional who can leverage this platform then Get Started Now6. Ensure you support someone you know to also become a Positive Prime Professional…

You may know someone who could want to be a Professional… If so, tell them about the Package & the outrageously good fortune in our Special Launch Promotion (Deadline: Monday, March 11th @ 5pm EST)

• A Network Marketing Leader who wants a Session to motivate their team members…
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When you join us as Professional with the whole package there’s 1,800 credits.

When you refer another Professional there’s a BONUS of 1,500 credits for YOU… Yes, MORE 🙂 That means if you have few people in your community who follow suit you could reach the Diamond Level – and you’ll have the decision about whether or not to stay with me in Australia…

When you join us as a Participant in the Signature Program & select the Annual Upfront Payment there’s a bonus of 1440 credits.

When you refer another who also joins us as a Participant for the Annual “upfront payment” there’s a bonus of 1,600 credits.

– However, When you refer another who also joins us as a Participant, and chooses the Monthly Installment Payments, there’s a bonus of 35 credits.

We want to spur you on… so if there’s ANY feedback or queries you have – please reach out to us…

Go, go, go…

The “deadline” is Monday, January 28th @ 5pm EST!!

Yes, that’s a lot of conversations you’ll need to have with team members, those in your professional groups, colleagues, friends & family…

Looking forward to hearing from you 🙂

Much Love, Kim